When do you start teaching your kids about manners and politeness ?
We have been consistently teaching and reminding our kids about manner since they were young. We want our kids to be polite. Don’t we all ? Cos I believe that how our child act is a reflection on usĀ as a parent.
There are four magic words that we always remind them – always say please, thank you, excuse me and sorry when necessary. Don’t interrupt when other are talking, close your mouth when chewing your food, cover your mouth and turn away when you sneezing, don’t whizzpopper ( read : fart. lol too much roald dahl influences in our house!) in the public, seat properly, don’t make noise in public and the list go on and on.
We also remind our kids about table manner that what our beloved prophet (saw) do / sunnah for eg: to say Bismillah,to begin eating from the what is directly in front of you rather than ‘hunt’ the food that far away from your plate, and showing some respect by let the adult to eatĀ first.
There are some books we read that teach kids about manner in moreĀ fun way. One of our favourite is the collection of poems from Gallet Burgess about table manners -More Goops and How Not to Be Them.
It is not too late to teach manner to our kids. We just need to be patient, be a good role model and lot of practice. Parenting is not easy and really, patience is the most important key.